New Religious Movements dangers
From Ruth Lavender
Friday, 31 January 2020
Hebden Bridge naturally attracts a lot of alternative groups and NRMs. I am posting to recommend to everyone that you check carefully what you may be joining. I have seen several “Buddhist” NRMs advertising classes in Hebden Bridge and Todmorden, as well as other groups, often offering what seem to be innocuous meditation classes. Some of these groups are known to have caused a lot of harm in the past, and a lot of them still do - ranging from financial pressures (increasing pressure to make larger donations, take expensive retreats abroad costing thousands of pounds, or to loan money that the organisation then pressures you to count as a donation for the sake of your spiritual progress) through to psychological abuses and even sexual abuses. Sometimes people are pressured into donating laptops, cars, even their house.
I’m not here to name groups, though I could name a few. I would instead advise that everyone should thoroughly check out any group they are considering getting more deeply involved with. Generally they start out as weekly drop in sessions or say a six week course of weekly sessions, and then you are invited to more intense and often more expensive “deeper” or “higher” teachings and courses. Attending weekly low key sessions is usually harmless enough, and may even be beneficial in the short term, but there is often pressure to take it further, at a cost.
These days information is so freely available; just do a few web searches and check it out for yourself. Try searches like "name of group" plus words like “controversy”, “abuse”, “survivors” and “cult”. You could also do searches with "name of organisation leader" and those terms.
In particular be careful with teachers who won’t answer your questions about such controversies, or who say that everything negative said about them online is down to “a few disgruntled ex-members”. If their ex-members are so “disgruntled” there are probably good reasons.
From Gideon Foster
Monday, 2 March 2020
I think you make a very helpful and valid point. I know we all need to make a living but any group whose first concern is money is generally out for themselves.
I'd also add another point in that anyone who seeks to "tell" rather than how you yourself should "question" should be avoided. True spirituality is about being guided to find your own answers because we all have different ones.